Mandy Du Plessis about Denial.

Although I have never met her, through my weekly letters I have developed a deep and fulfulling relationship with Many Du Plessis in South Africa. I invite you to read her response to my letter about denial.

Hi Bruno,

I hope to one day be in your position - to receive these gifts from our closest non-human companions.
I have just started a COAPE course - studying dog behaviour, and cannot wait to expand my knowledge!!

Over the months I have read chapters out of Cesar Millan's books, as well as reading other sources on dog behaviour. Whilst each 'theory' on behaviour has it's good points, some also have their bad points - these are the from people who, when faced when 'dangerous' dogs, only tell their clients that they should just be careful and walk their dog in a muzzle (whilst this is safe, it's not a solution to the problem, only the symptom).

I appreciate more and more those who are able to work WITH the dog, as opposed to working over the dog.
We now have 5 dogs on our property (one Boerboel (pet shop Boerboel, unfortunately, but we know better now), one Maltese, one seemingly Staffie/Whippet cross (although she could be ANYTHING) and two Mini Schnauzers. It is such a delight to notice things I had never noticed before - all from making an effort in educating myself.

I can now understand (mostly) why my dogs do the things they do, and whilst I still don't have all the answers for some of their behaviours, I am still amazed when I encounter people who know so much less than I do. I wonder how I ever coped before (maybe shouting/smacking my dogs and then just walking inside and only seeing them again at supper to throw some kibble into their bowl?). I feel ashamed at how I once viewed dogs - as pets, and nothing more.

I am glad to not only learn from 'experts' who teach me about the psychological aspects of canines, but also from the SPIRITUAL people who have taught me to truly appreciate the life in a dog.
Not only are my dogs happier for it, but I am lessed stressed, and I take more joy in waking up and receiving happy snuggles, wagging tails and gentle licks on my arms.

Thank you for your never-ending stories of encouragements and eye-openers!

Peace and Joy to you Bruno

Mandy